9 Reasons Women Stay With Cheating Husbands

Janet and her two children kept cuddling on the bed while her husband’s phone rang for the seventh time in five minutes. It was a Saturday afternoon.

Soon enough, the sound became “deafening” and she had to answer the call to tell the person to call back in few minutes when he would have finished in the bathroom.

“The contact of the person calling was saved as ‘James office’ so I felt the person should be one of his colleagues and so I didn’t hesitate to use ‘sir’ when I answered the call, but I was surprised to hear a female voice,” she recalled.

Notably, that call did not only open Janet’s eyes to the fact that her husband had been cheating on her, she also got to know how long she had been sharing her man with another woman, or even other women in their nine-year-old marriage.

Janet said, “The moment I answered the call, the lady calling screamed in anger even before I could say a word. I think both of them were supposed to be somewhere at that time because my husband was also rushing to go out for an ‘appointment’. She even asked (him) if it was his ‘stupid wife’ that was delaying him. When she finished ranting, having said so many things that left me in shock, I simply asked who she was, and she answered, ‘so what’ and she dropped the call.”

Apparently shocked, Janet said she confronted her husband and that instead of apologising, he was furious and even told her she could pack her things and leave his house if she was no longer comfortable.

She added, “Before then, I had heard him countless times making silent calls and he would always terminate the call once I was approaching, but I didn’t want to assume wrongly, until that day that everything was confirmed.

“He has not changed because I have caught him many times after that. I can’t leave him, because God is against divorce and for the sake of my children.

Even though the relationship is not as exciting as it used to be, the couple are still together and had even had another child after that.

According to findings, being cheated on can be emotionally and psychologically draining, but interestingly, Janet’s experience is representative of what many women go through in marriage. Studies have shown that about 70 per cent of men cheat on their wives and that 17 per cent of divorce cases are caused by infidelity.

But, beyond religious teachings that admonish people to stay in marriage ‘for better, for worse,’ it would be interesting to know the reasons women stay with cheating spouses:

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“Islam Must Grow In Igboland” – Muslim Groups Brags As 3 Imo State Brothers Convert To Islam

In yet another startling news making rounds online, three siblings from Imo State has reportedly abandoned their Christian faith, embraced Islam, and are currently on their way to Kaduna State to undergo their Islamic education.

A Facebook page, ‘Islamic Calling Family’, who made the revelation and posted the photos on social media, wrote;

“Three brothers of same parents from Chokoneze in Ezinihitte Mbaise L.g.a Imo State. Accepted Islam 2 days ago. Chinonso now Hassan, Chika now Musa. Chibuzor now Abdulrahman. They are now in Islamic school in Kaduna state to have basic Islamic education.”

Nigerian Child Singing Sensation Benita Okojie Releases Pre-wedding Photos

A couple of weeks ago, we reported that Gospel singer Benita Okojie and her lover, Wale Adeyina were engaged and set to walk down the aisle.

The soon-to-wed couple have now released their pre-wedding photos as seen below:

Their Love and proposal story as told to BN!

We attended the same university – Redeemers University. We started out as friends and after we graduated, he wanted us to be more than friends. I prayed and asked my mum for her counsel and I felt a certain peace so I consented and I Thank God for what we share and how far we’ve come.

Olawale and my sister Bella are very good friends and business partners which is one of the things that drew me to him because my sister and I are very close. Over the years, in the course of our relationship, both of them have been able to team up and surprise me on several occasions and it can be annoying because together they pull great surprises for me and I never have the slightest clue beforehand.

So I knew he would also get my sister involved when he was ready to pop the question.Anyway, one morning, The Nerd (as I like to call him) called me and we gisted as usual, after we did he asked to speak with my sister under the guise of work related stuff. He said she needed to go to the office to turn in a client’s job as soon as possible. I had no idea they had planned to go to the ring store.

After their conversation, we made plans to go and see a movie.I went to get ready and we had agreed that he would pick me up at 12 pm. when it was 12, there was no sign of him. 1pm passed, then 2pm… he still hadn’t come. I called to ask him why he was taking long. He apologized and said he had to get a job done for a client but he was on his way.

When he came home, he came with my sister and she was forming vexing, that they didn’t open the gate early. It was part of her script. Lol.I was so concerned with us getting to the movies early to watch a particular movie that I didn’t notice anything strange. I

went to get something outside and when I came back to the living room, I saw him kneeling with a box. I just started screaming and running round the house. I don’t remember anything he said. My mum had to ask me to “give him an answer o”. It’s one day I will not forget in a hurry.

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Singer Timaya Says He Does Not Know What The Rest Of Nigeria Is Talking About Because There Is No Recession In His Own End

Agberipapa 1 of Bayelsa has declared himself recession-free.

He shared a picture of his dapper looking self with the below caption:

“Someone’s sitting in a shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago. GOD I see you… No recession in my corner, I’m bawling!!!”

Music: Tony Ross Ft Wilfresh – Over Do

Best Comedian In Nigeria AY Makun Nominated For YNaijas Person Of The Year 2016

Hi guys, help Comedian AY win the man of the Year.
If you feel he deserves to win, please kindly visit this link AY Makun Nominated For YNaijas Person of the Year 2016 (Here), scroll all the way down and vote for Him. God bless you!