Dear LIB readers: I can't seem to please my girlfriend sexually

From a male LIB reader

I've been dating this lady for 11 months and sex with her is destroying my self-esteem. No matter what I do to her and for her, I can't seem to please her or make her reach orgasm. I've used my tongue, my fingers, my p****, nothing works. Sometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins trying to please her and when I raise my head to see if she was enjoying it she would ask me, are you done? I strain my mouth and tongue for so long and all I get is 'are you done?' She is circumcised but I have had sex with other circumcised women who enjoyed it but this woman is just so rigid, I've never seen anything like it. But before you suggest I dump her, I need to let you know that is not an option for now, I'm crazy about her. Everything else in our relationship is going well, I just can't seem to make her enjoy intimacy with me. What can I do?

Boko Haram: Gombe state governemnt shuts down all schools

Following the recent attacks by Boko Haram members in the state, the Gombe state government has ordered the closure of all public and private schools in the state. Parents who took their children to school this morning were asked to take them back home following the directive by the state govt which was sent out to all school heads in a circular yesterday evening.

The Permanent Secretary, Gombe state Government House, Sani Jauro confirmed the closure to NAN but said it was just a "normal mid-term break for students".

Photos: Beyonce wows in $120 Topshop dress

Beyonce earned a staggering $115million this year alone but when she she attended Topshop's New York City opening last night, she wore a $120 Topshop dress and killed it. Beyonce didn't have to wear an outfit from the brand, but she decided to honour the UK owner, Sir Philip Green, who hosted the dinner alongside his wife. The US store is the second largest Topshop store in the world and its located near the Rockefeller Center. See more photos after the cut...

Beyonce with Sir Philip Green

An attack on my hometown Mubi is immaterial - Chief of Defense Staff

Reacting to reports that Boko Haram men attacked and ceased his home town, Mubi in Adamawa state, the Chief of Defence staff, Air Marshal Alex Badeh, said an attack on his village does not mean the military is helpless. He said its immaterial if it was his hometown that was attacked as the attack could have been on any other part of Nigeria and it would still have affected him as Security Chief.



Mr Badeh made this remark while speaking to newsmen after the National Council of state meeting at the Presidential villa in Abuja yesterday.

"How can Nigeria be helpless? If the CDS loses his hometown, its the same thing as losing Lagos, its the same thing as losing Enugu. Any part of Nigeria that is lost, CDS carries the weight. So its immaterial, whether its my hometown or my house that is burnt or Emeka's house, or whoever's house that is burnt in Nigeria, the CDS is pained".

Photo: Nigerian man charged for murder in the UK

A 21 year old Nigerian man, Sodiq Adebayo, who resides in Ilford, has been charged to court in the UK for the murder of 22 year old Noor Hassan Barre (pictured above).



According to London24 news, Sodiq and another man, 20 year old Kevin Mao stabbed Noor in the chest during a fight in the early hours of Friday October 31st at the Middlesex University in Hendon UK. Noor was rushed to the Northwick Park hospital where he died.

Sodiq and Kevin are scheduled to appear before the Barkingside and Wimbledon Magistrates court respectively tomorrow.

Police release CCTV footage showing shocking moment woman was kidnapped

The police in Philadelphia yesterday released CCTV footage showing the terrifying moment a woman was grabbed and dragged into a car as she was walking on the road in Penn Knox on Sunday Nov. 2nd.



The woman, identified as 22 year old nurse Carlesha Freeland-Gaither, was walking home alone around 9.40pm after attending her godson's birthday party on Sunday night when an unknown man grabbed her from behind. Carlesha screamed and fought the man for a few minutes, even kicking the glass out of two of the car’s windows before the unidentified man managed to overpower her and bungle her into his car. She has not been seen since then.



Speaking to CBS News, Philadelphia police spokesman, John Stanford, described the man as black, 5ft10 and aged between 25 and 30. The police say they believe the kidnapper is unknown to the woman who lives with her boyfriend and was just 3 blocks from her home when she was kidnapped.

Timi Dakolo's wife sends him loving shoutout on instagram

Awww...